In News & Notes on 7 October 2016 at 8:00 pm
Bathrooms Accessible in Every Situation (BABIES) Act
It is crazy that we need an Act to ensure that bathrooms are accessible in every situation but let it not be said that Obama just ignored the need as so many presidents before him. Just in the nick of time too. Thanks to his timely action, the men save face and can be satisfied that it did not need to wait for a woman president to make sure that they had a place to change babies diapers in public restrooms.
Situation? Obama and Baby aren’t seeing eye to eye …or maybe one of them’s gotta GO.
In How on 23 July 2016 at 11:00 am
A young boy asks his father, “What happened in Kashmir?”
Those of us sheltered from the daily horrors that have become a way of life in far too much of the world may be unprepared to answer honestly when our children ask us questions like this. How do we reveal much less “explain” the violence in the world, when we don’t quite understand it ourselves?
Fred Rogers said about talking to children about such events – “look for the helpers.” In any horrible scene (e.g. that you might read in the news) there will also be people who are helping, even if it is only the reporter bringing public attention to it.
Going one step further, one can try to be a helper – even from a distance, as this father tried to do.
“B, We have to go a protest today. Do you want to come too?”
“What is this protest, Acha (Dad in Malayalam)?”
“It is about a place called Kashmir. A lot of people have been killed and blinded there by the police and the army.”
“What happened there?”
“Ok, Let me tell you…..”
In How on 12 June 2016 at 2:43 pm
As I was sending out invitations for our daughter’s birthday party, the question of gifts crossed my mind. A long time ago I read in one of Miss Manners’ advice columns that it was bad manners to expect a gift. Therefore, it followed that it was was not polite to offer any instructions about gifts to give or not give. Although Miss Manners made a slight concession for children’s birthday parties, I agreed with her logic and simply kept gifts out of our vocabulary when inviting friends for parties.
Her concession, as I recall, was that one could, for example, decorate the invitation with images of say, books or trains, as a hint to parents wondering what to bring as a gift. From the perspective of a parent of a child attending a birthday party, I can appreciate that it is nice to get such a hint. But surely we can do better than that? Can we not take the time to give a gift from the heart?
No one wants birthdays to be about accumulating more stuff. But what is the alternative?